When I was in school I always hated reading; probably because I was forced to read books I didn't care about. As an adult, the second I am done reading one book, I have three more I am dying to pickup. After reading a series of best sellers, I found this one by comedic writer Jenna McCarthy.
Although I just started it last night, it revolves around Jenna's (and others) real life adventures as a wife and how many/most of our marital struggles are living together. Like having a roommate, you notice every single (irking) thing your spouse can do and traits that were once endearing when you were dating can often loose their charm.
Do you stop loving this person? Never. Would you rather be alone? No (ok, sometimes, but not forever). As a newlywed, she hit the nail on the head for me, in her introduction with a remark about how you spend a year (your whole life) planning a wedding, honeymoon and how darn cute your babies will be, but you don't always think about "ever after," and "till death do us part."
I feel grateful that Michael and I's religion required us to go through couples counseling prior to marriage, as once a week we were taken out of wedding planning and forced to deal with real-life marital situations. However, as we chose not to live together before hand, something I still stand by, that is often the biggest wake up call.
I am excited to read through this novel that promises to shed a comedic light on living with the man you love... till death do you part.